- May 13, 2008
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Yes, I have done this, many times, thats where I get the --I don't want to do that, because I may fail-- so we don't do anything that has any sense of good vs bad involved. Like a percentage, how many pitches does it take to hit your spots, a competition game, etc, She will not do anything like that. In reality, it doesn't matter, she's just one bad pitch away from a mental breakdown.
This might indicate a perfectionist, except that a perfectionist will simply fail to try, not throw a tantrum if she fails.
I may also note, that when we have these conversations and I agree that she doesn't have to do something she doesn't want to, that temporarily perks her back up. It's like a control battle going between us.
I've even made her write down everything that bothers her class and bring it back to class, because when I ask in class she just screams she doesn't know. The note she brought back just said she didn't like to fail.
This child is good and well practiced at controlling things; her parents, teachers, and you. Of all the child behavioral problems, her pattern mostly resembles Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Give the following a read and see if it rings true...
Oppositional Defiant Disorder