- Oct 22, 2009
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I think I have a student who is bi-polar.
Sure I've had many kids that go through mood swings in class, but this one is exceptional.
Once, I actually had a student whose parent told me she was bi-polar. When the kid would get a little frustrated, the parent would jump up off her bucket run to her walk her off, calm her down with soothing, "It's okay baby". The parent reminded me off that Twilight Zone where Billy Mummy would vanish people he didn't like into the nothing.
I never believed the kid was bi-polar, I just thought the kid knew how to throw crazy tantrums to get what she wanted.
But THIS kid! Every time she shows up for lessons, she's on top of the world, like she's literally on some high. She's bouncy and tells silly jokes and stories and talks real fast.
As soon as I get her warmed up and start to work on something, she turns off---like a switch--. We barely get anything accomplished because she's mentally not there anymore. Her face looks like she's just angry with the world and she won't try to make corrections. She won't talk and when she does, it's just "I can't".
When class is over she used to slam her glove to the ground start to cry and run straight from the field to the car leaving her parent to pick up all her stuff.
Since then I won't let her do that, but she pretty much just gathers her own stuff and storms off while I try to talk to her, sometimes she is crying sometimes she is close to it.
This happens at EVERY lesson.
I've put up with it because she is a gifted athlete, (which is another reason why I think she explodes so much when it doesn't come easy). But her progress could be a lot faster without the drama.
Do you think she may have an emotional issue, or is this just a spoiled child? Has anyone else ever had a player/student like this?
I've tried everything to reach her, but I refuse to tell her she's perfect and doesn't need to work on anything, even though that is what she wants to hear.
The parents only give her encouraging words and never get stern with her on her attitude.
Sure I've had many kids that go through mood swings in class, but this one is exceptional.
Once, I actually had a student whose parent told me she was bi-polar. When the kid would get a little frustrated, the parent would jump up off her bucket run to her walk her off, calm her down with soothing, "It's okay baby". The parent reminded me off that Twilight Zone where Billy Mummy would vanish people he didn't like into the nothing.
I never believed the kid was bi-polar, I just thought the kid knew how to throw crazy tantrums to get what she wanted.
But THIS kid! Every time she shows up for lessons, she's on top of the world, like she's literally on some high. She's bouncy and tells silly jokes and stories and talks real fast.
As soon as I get her warmed up and start to work on something, she turns off---like a switch--. We barely get anything accomplished because she's mentally not there anymore. Her face looks like she's just angry with the world and she won't try to make corrections. She won't talk and when she does, it's just "I can't".
When class is over she used to slam her glove to the ground start to cry and run straight from the field to the car leaving her parent to pick up all her stuff.
Since then I won't let her do that, but she pretty much just gathers her own stuff and storms off while I try to talk to her, sometimes she is crying sometimes she is close to it.
This happens at EVERY lesson.
I've put up with it because she is a gifted athlete, (which is another reason why I think she explodes so much when it doesn't come easy). But her progress could be a lot faster without the drama.
Do you think she may have an emotional issue, or is this just a spoiled child? Has anyone else ever had a player/student like this?
I've tried everything to reach her, but I refuse to tell her she's perfect and doesn't need to work on anything, even though that is what she wants to hear.
The parents only give her encouraging words and never get stern with her on her attitude.