Thanks Everyone for the input. My role is much more than calling out the line up and making sure the kids have water, I coach first and call pitches, among other things. I did know about DD's games before making the commitment to coach the boys and that was a trade off I was and am willing to make. The reason I started questioning wether to go on the trip or not was that the other AC's were suggesting that I should stay back or at least they would if they were in my situation. I have always put the team first being at every practice game or team function even if DS was not there. As far as loosing the AC position I dont think it would come to that, I have been with this HC for the last 6 years and we are friends off the field. My first though and the one that I keep coming back to is that I made a commitment to the team and that not going on the trip would send the wrong message that I think kids get far too often and that is if there is nothing in it for me its not worth it. To that I say even if DS is not on the field there is not much better than to see a kid that is struggling battle in the box and get his first double or the Uber emotional kid knock out his 1st HR. Plus it wont be long before these days have passed me by and both kids have moved on to bigger and better things. Just wanted to thank you all for your views. Ill let you all know how they did on the trip when I get back.
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