My DD was very similar to this. She told her #1 that they were her #1 and told the other schools that her #1 was the other school. They all asked if there was anything they could do to change her mind about who her #1 was.DD openly told her #1 school that she wanted to come there but if it didn't work out she was absolutely going to be attending a school in the region and that the other schools that were pursuing her were on the #1 schools schedule... So which dugout would the coach prefer her to be in?