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Rec parents always ask me...I don't really have much time but want to help what should we do...my number one answer is always play catch with your kid. The thing is kids just don't get out like we use to when I grew up, I remember my brother and I playing catch in our big back yard by 9 or 10 we must have thrown and caught tens of thousands of grounders and pop flies and could not drop a ball thrown within our reach if we wanted to it was just instinct to catch it.
Funny thing is it probably would not hurt most girls to just play in a quality LL baseball program through 12U (blasphemy I know). I had one girl play rec 14U with me for one year who had never played softball before, her dad wanted her to play for the HS varsity softball program her Freshman year and figured she should at least have played the game before trying out. She had only played baseball with her brothers previously in LL that way dad (who coached) did not have to split his time between kids, so we talked he trusted me enough and off we went. She was easily one of the best players on the team and did make Varsity as a freshman (but that's another story).
As much as I want girls to pitch the 10U rec walk fests I endured are nightmares seared in my mind that I try so hard to forget....thanks to this thread for drudging them up.
Baseball and softball skill development need reps...lots and lots of reps. Pitching, throwing, fielding and hitting. There are no shortcuts.
Regarding girls playing baseball, I had a girl on my LL baseball all star team when I was 11 and 12. One of the better hitters on the team. Ended up being the best softball player on her HS team and played in college. My sister who ended up being a very good softball player, and could have played in college had
she not played college volleyball, played on my baseball team when I was 8 (she was 7). I think Kelly Kretschman played baseball first as well.
And yes, as I have complained about in other posts here on DFP, 10U kid pitch can be torture. I suggest you put those memories back in the recesses
of your brain where they resided until this thread popped up
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