I don't know whether the plan to sneak out was hatched before the sleepover, but whether it was or wasn't, the decision to follow through with it was made during the sleepover. I know we're all different, but my concern is that this information wasn't related to me until a month later. So, that degree of dishonesty - and let's call it a "conspiracy", because that's what it was - is bothersome to me. As the old adage goes, "it's not the crime, it's the cover-up". My relationship with the other parent would change after an incident like this, too. I'm naturally skeptical of almost everyone, so this would confirm that I was right not to fully trust them.
I am in full agreement.
It was a conspiracy! It is such a messed up situation, but I will try and describe it.
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