JJsqueeze
Dad, Husband....legend
^^ what he said....
Easton- If trust is gone with a single incident then was it trust to begin with? Diminished, damaged, yes, but gone? How fair is it for a kid to do a bunch of great things than then they screw up once and their parent says they do not trust them anymore? I know it is comfortable to live in black and whites, but the world is shades of grey.
A 16 year old sneaking out of the house (not even her parents house which is kind of a mitigating factor) is more along the lines of a kid being somewhere different than where they say they are, it is right up there with having a party when your parents are out of town and you were told to not have a party. It is almost a cliche as far as teenage boundary testing goes and to be honest there are only two wrong reactions....
1) Blowing a gasket and making it seem like the crime of the century
2) Ignoring it
Pretty much anything between those two extremes is probably going to be OK.
Easton- If trust is gone with a single incident then was it trust to begin with? Diminished, damaged, yes, but gone? How fair is it for a kid to do a bunch of great things than then they screw up once and their parent says they do not trust them anymore? I know it is comfortable to live in black and whites, but the world is shades of grey.
A 16 year old sneaking out of the house (not even her parents house which is kind of a mitigating factor) is more along the lines of a kid being somewhere different than where they say they are, it is right up there with having a party when your parents are out of town and you were told to not have a party. It is almost a cliche as far as teenage boundary testing goes and to be honest there are only two wrong reactions....
1) Blowing a gasket and making it seem like the crime of the century
2) Ignoring it
Pretty much anything between those two extremes is probably going to be OK.