What don't you buy? Do you want me to start name dropping? Not my ORG, but look at Corona Angels Tyson. 23 Rostered, 16 of them are 2021 and ALL go to D1 (and BIG D1). Obviously, there's not 16 starters. My good friends DD went to Ilinois from CA Tyson, she was a backup. I've given similar examples from my DD's org. I know its the exact same for Athletics Mercado, So Cal Choppers, FC Rico, etc. I don't know your area, so obviously I can't claim to know what happens there. But this is what happens here in my area.
Anyway, sorry for the repeated back and forth. It seems like we're both pretty entrenched in our own opinions (which is good)
I understand what you're saying, and I don't dispute that those teams have big rosters. What I don't buy is a player getting recruited to Div 1 softball from a travel team where they spend most of their time not playing...the exception being a pitcher or maybe a catcher. Unless those teams rotate their whole lineup with each game, I'd contend that their HS or a previous team where that reserve IF/OF actually played was a greater factor in their recruitment. Yeah, the area I live isn't as dense with teams as SOCAL, but it's still pretty strong for softball. The Div 1 players I know didn't spend much time on the bench at any point in their pre-college careers.