Other than HS football, organized youth sports are designed to have kids are drop out.
Is TB designed to have kids drop out? If so, how?
My DD's high school had 2 freshman basketball teams, 1 sophomore team, and 1 varsity team.
About 50 kids tried out for the freshman teams. Only 30 made a team. Next year, there were only 12 sophomores on the sophomore team. Of the original 50 kids, only 3 played varsity. Of those 3, only 2 had substantial minutes on the floor.
Some kids simply don't have the eye-hand coordination or the speed to play sports at a high level.
It doesn't matter how much they work...they simply ain't got it. And, if a kid doesn't have the inate ability to be good, she should find something else to do.
Softball is just a game.
You are absolutely right, it is just a game, and if my DDs walk away from that is ok. I give them as much room to drop out as I can.
I am just curious if there are signs a parent might notice well in advance, that their daughter might be likely to drop out, or just the opposite, that they are likely to continue with it.