My DD is currently playing for a 14U Travel team where she is the starting pitcher. She is still 12U eligible and has been asked to play for a 12U A bracket team in a World Series event that with her they could possibly win. The problem is that her current coach is going to be very unhappy about this situation. We aren’t looking to leave her current team but he doesn’t like his players playing for other teams for fear of losing them. She would not miss any of her current teams events to go play with the other team. I don't want to make her miss out on an opportunity to experience a World Series event. There is a chance that he may actually kick her off the team if she goes. What to do?
Go for it!! This could be a once in a life time event. There may be more chances for your DD to participate in a WS event at higher levels, but you never know. You stated that she won't miss any of her current teams event and you aren't looking to leave her current team, so I don't see where this is a loyalty issue. This could be the difference between being seen by a college coach or not and getting a scholarship down the road. Her coach should be happy for her, and not just thinking about possibly losing games if she's not there. Just my 2 cents.