Parents should never argue with umpires at youth sports. Parents are spectators, not part of the action. Let the coaches handle it.
REALLY,REALLY wish I hadn't read this thread, "check your phone cause I think you missed a call" Unfortunately I feel I wont be able to stop myself from using that one some day.
To be honest, you did ask if you were out of line. Don't ask a question if you aren't prepared for
honest answers.
I didn't call him names. I didn't call him stupid or blind. That would have been demeaning. I simply used a creative way to tell him he missed a call. That's not demeaning.