DD is playing 18U up from 14U in the summer- has been an adjustment. Pretty good outings first two tournaments- third not good. Next tournament- DD does not pitch- at all. (I drove 4.5 hours for that). Next tournament, she pitches two innings, gives up one run to a good team, who was clobbering our other pitcher but otherwise was fine. Today, she came in relief - down 4-3 three in first game, gives up no runs, one hit, 3Ks in two innings. Third game, comes in after three, down 5-1, gives up one hit, no runs, 3Ks, three walks against a good team. We lose 5-1. Coach comments on first hit, says that's what you get when you throw it down the middle (DD says to me- pitch was low and on the outside of the plate). next comment is that she needs to hit her spots better, and finally, she needs to pitch with straight arm - not bent arm. We have been working hard on IR to try to GET DD to bend arm . No comments to other pitcher who was getting hit hard, only to DD. Yuck.
She is thoroughly demoralized and was crying on the way home. What to do? This is a new team for us, in an established organization (which is of course $$$$). Coach apparently is only for the fall and there will be a new coach in the spring, but I am afraid of the possibility that negative aura/vibe will persist and DD will not get fair shot -
What to do? I would be OK with DD being #3 if stats warranted it- but I am not so sure that is the case.
Needed to vent and would welcome thoughts (DD is 14, freshman, LHP, speed 55-57- just as an FYI)
She is thoroughly demoralized and was crying on the way home. What to do? This is a new team for us, in an established organization (which is of course $$$$). Coach apparently is only for the fall and there will be a new coach in the spring, but I am afraid of the possibility that negative aura/vibe will persist and DD will not get fair shot -
What to do? I would be OK with DD being #3 if stats warranted it- but I am not so sure that is the case.
Needed to vent and would welcome thoughts (DD is 14, freshman, LHP, speed 55-57- just as an FYI)
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