Oklahoma Executive, I believe.
You can't be both level-headed and want to go to FSU. Pick one!
That said, it's pretty normal for tournaments to have one facility or field where most of the coaches/scouts hang out. This is where having an established team/organization helps, because those are the teams that get to play at those fields. Due to the nature of tournaments, many less known teams get to play the well known teams, and will often brag about how many coaches were present. I can promise you though, that if none of your kids invited the coaches to see them or sent their profiles, that they weren't being watched.
Sounds like your daughter has a pretty good head about her. I wouldn't put too much stock in the coaches comments. If she's getting the coaches she invites out to see her, then she's doing it right.
Oh, and go Gators.
-W
Oklahoma Executive, I believe.