- Jan 6, 2020
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When we have off weekends I never say no to her doing things with friends. I might try that route and plan things in advance to let her have more friend time. I also don't want her to give up the sport entirely either!My DD is a second year 12u and about a year ago she had a mild breakdown about playing and missing friend's birthday parties, sleepovers, etc. My DW and I made an effort to plan things for her and her friends during the off weekends and the offseason in the end of the summer and winter. We plan "back to school" sleepovers in August after try out season but before the fall cranks back up. We also plan dinners and movie nights. We try to make up for time that she misses just being a kid. I know we all look forward to our weekends off but if your DD gets burnt out and quits, then you will have all the free weekends you can imagine. And me personally, that's not what I want.