- Feb 3, 2011
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Excellent point, Kevin. I never had to deal with it, but I wouldn't discuss any of these matters right after a game with parents either. I only talk to the players after each game, and parents are not included. I did put this policy in writing and covered it at the team meeting prior to the season, though. There's almost no way to have an effective dialogue in that moment when the parent is most upset. The only questions I'll take from parents after a game are for quick rules clarifications, but even that can be a little tricky when you're trying to tell a parent that it was an umpire's judgment call.I've only been coaching rec ball for a couple of years but if I had an irate parent come to me after a game I would listen to what they have to say but wouldn't respond. There is no way you are going to convince them you are right while they are venting. I'd thank them for coming to me with their concerns and suggest we meet or talk on the phone the next day to discuss it. If you can calmly explain your rationale for what you are doing you may not win over the parent but your league officials will most likely back you up.