martianr
Softball DAD
This forum has been great about giving their perspective on concerns and issues. Here is mine and it has a lot of twist so if I am not clear please, don't hesitate, to ask me to clarify.
In my state we play High School Softball in May-July. Once School year ends it is a feeding frenzy for Volleyball and Basketball coaches to want a piece of the Softball players to participate in their "Off Season" programs. We are a small school so the girls will play in 3 or 4 different sports during a school year. The issue is the VB and BB coaches want the Softball players to lift weights and do there workouts(Monday-Thursday with Friday being optional) and playing VB and BB games during SB Season on Sunday .
Here would be a daily routine for my DD: 6:30 AM Drivers Education, 7:30 Lift weights and other conditioning workout until "?", then Maybe a Freshman game at 12:00, Always hitting every game day around 3:00, then a JV game at 6:00 and a Varsity game at 8:00. If it is a home game we would be home by 10:00 if it is an away game we would be home around 11:00 or 11:30 or later. Then start all over the next day. Other than Sunday there is only two days in June that does not have a SB game scheduled.
My Issues or Concerns are as follows:
1. would you have your DD lifting weights and doing the Volleyball and Basketball workouts on game days or during SB seasons?
2. Playing other sports during SB season. My defense is this: how would the VB and BB coach felt if their players had SB workouts during their season or a workout before their game.
3. The BB coach has made it clear that the girls that don't participate in these summer workouts, that their playing time next season might be jeopardized. I realize that it might be idol treats, but my 9th grade DD took it very serious.
4. Right on I have told my DD that she is NOT lifting weights or doing the workouts during SB season.
5. The SB Season MIGHT be over by July 8th. Which would give them plenty of time to be in shape the VB and BB season.
6. SB is my DD favorite sport. And just like VB and BB she would like to win Conference and go to State.
What would you do?
Thank you!
In my state we play High School Softball in May-July. Once School year ends it is a feeding frenzy for Volleyball and Basketball coaches to want a piece of the Softball players to participate in their "Off Season" programs. We are a small school so the girls will play in 3 or 4 different sports during a school year. The issue is the VB and BB coaches want the Softball players to lift weights and do there workouts(Monday-Thursday with Friday being optional) and playing VB and BB games during SB Season on Sunday .
Here would be a daily routine for my DD: 6:30 AM Drivers Education, 7:30 Lift weights and other conditioning workout until "?", then Maybe a Freshman game at 12:00, Always hitting every game day around 3:00, then a JV game at 6:00 and a Varsity game at 8:00. If it is a home game we would be home by 10:00 if it is an away game we would be home around 11:00 or 11:30 or later. Then start all over the next day. Other than Sunday there is only two days in June that does not have a SB game scheduled.
My Issues or Concerns are as follows:
1. would you have your DD lifting weights and doing the Volleyball and Basketball workouts on game days or during SB seasons?
2. Playing other sports during SB season. My defense is this: how would the VB and BB coach felt if their players had SB workouts during their season or a workout before their game.
3. The BB coach has made it clear that the girls that don't participate in these summer workouts, that their playing time next season might be jeopardized. I realize that it might be idol treats, but my 9th grade DD took it very serious.
4. Right on I have told my DD that she is NOT lifting weights or doing the workouts during SB season.
5. The SB Season MIGHT be over by July 8th. Which would give them plenty of time to be in shape the VB and BB season.
6. SB is my DD favorite sport. And just like VB and BB she would like to win Conference and go to State.
What would you do?
Thank you!