They had practice last night, and boy, let me tell you...they all looked like they were at Rec ball practice. Fumbling, missing the catch, overthrowing, etc. By the end of practice, the coach gets them to run (by this time, they had already done quite a bit of running in the drills) the perimeter of the field, then run the bases...they run the perimeter of the field again, and coach says that they didn't beat their previous time to do it again. My dd? She starts holding her side and backs out. The REST of the team did the last run without issue.
I was very disappointed in my dd. She is in shape and I don't know why she did this. She has one of the highest work ethic of most players...she still isn't the best, but she works hard at it. Anyway, after practice, I suggested that maybe it was time to stop sleeping in until 11 a.m., watching t.v. all day and playing on her phone...it's time to move her body. I also hinted (only slightly) that she lost the respect of her teammates and her coaches by bowing out like that. I then said she was going to have to put in 200% to erase that. I know I probably should have kept my mouth shut, but I just don't think she realizes how it was perceived.
I know this may sound rough to some of you, but she needs to realize the ramifications of her actions. She could have at least caught her breath and started the lap a little later...or something like that. Ugh.
This morning, she texts me saying that she was going for a run, then walking the dog and probably will go swimming after that. I think she got the message.
BTW, she's 13 years old on a 2nd year 12U team (will be 14U in the Fall). She has a history of being cut from teams for various reasons: 1) getting too hot during tryouts (triple digits in August) got her cut...they saw that as weakness; 2) inconsistent hitting. And with last weekend included, her batting avg has dropped way down (it was almost .700...now it's .230!) and add what happened last night to that. I am getting frustrated beyond belief, and I just don't want her to get hurt with another rejection...she REALLY likes this team.
Okay, I'm done. We'll see how these remaining few weeks pan out...we are going to ASA Southern Nationals in Florida, and I really, really hope she performs to the best of her abilities. I am putting this out here, and keeping my mouth shut around her. NO.MORE.LIP.FROM.ME.
I was very disappointed in my dd. She is in shape and I don't know why she did this. She has one of the highest work ethic of most players...she still isn't the best, but she works hard at it. Anyway, after practice, I suggested that maybe it was time to stop sleeping in until 11 a.m., watching t.v. all day and playing on her phone...it's time to move her body. I also hinted (only slightly) that she lost the respect of her teammates and her coaches by bowing out like that. I then said she was going to have to put in 200% to erase that. I know I probably should have kept my mouth shut, but I just don't think she realizes how it was perceived.
I know this may sound rough to some of you, but she needs to realize the ramifications of her actions. She could have at least caught her breath and started the lap a little later...or something like that. Ugh.
This morning, she texts me saying that she was going for a run, then walking the dog and probably will go swimming after that. I think she got the message.
BTW, she's 13 years old on a 2nd year 12U team (will be 14U in the Fall). She has a history of being cut from teams for various reasons: 1) getting too hot during tryouts (triple digits in August) got her cut...they saw that as weakness; 2) inconsistent hitting. And with last weekend included, her batting avg has dropped way down (it was almost .700...now it's .230!) and add what happened last night to that. I am getting frustrated beyond belief, and I just don't want her to get hurt with another rejection...she REALLY likes this team.
Okay, I'm done. We'll see how these remaining few weeks pan out...we are going to ASA Southern Nationals in Florida, and I really, really hope she performs to the best of her abilities. I am putting this out here, and keeping my mouth shut around her. NO.MORE.LIP.FROM.ME.