I love the discussions on this board. And besides learning a heck of a lot of stuff, I have had my mind changed on more than one occasion by some very insightful people.
So, I got drug into a discussion after a game last night: Is it all about the win? Two parents, one question.
My answer was "no," but only if I was lying. Because, ultimately, games are won by some, lost by the others, and that is why we play.
I don't like losing when I play. I don't feel as strongly about it when it's my team playing, and I'm coaching. After all..I can't go in there and catch that pop fly, now can I? ( I've learned to let go of the things I really can't control.)
As a coach, the win for me is to see the growth in the kids. But the big win is when I hear them saying at the end of the season "I can't wait for next season!"
But that's not really what I'm asking about.
Is winning the game what it's all about for the players? Should it be?
I would love to hear what you guys have to say.
So, I got drug into a discussion after a game last night: Is it all about the win? Two parents, one question.
My answer was "no," but only if I was lying. Because, ultimately, games are won by some, lost by the others, and that is why we play.
I don't like losing when I play. I don't feel as strongly about it when it's my team playing, and I'm coaching. After all..I can't go in there and catch that pop fly, now can I? ( I've learned to let go of the things I really can't control.)
As a coach, the win for me is to see the growth in the kids. But the big win is when I hear them saying at the end of the season "I can't wait for next season!"
But that's not really what I'm asking about.
Is winning the game what it's all about for the players? Should it be?
I would love to hear what you guys have to say.