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That is all true. It depends on the kid. Is she ready to be out on her own? If she's not prepared, it may be tough seeing the family only a few times throughout the school year.
So many people criticize coaches that do not recruit from smaller teams/organizations, these are some of the reasons why. When playing for the large orgs. the kids play out of state on a regular basis, travel alone, room with other kids they may or may not know, budget their money for the duration of the trip, ... So when someone says "the best player on the field isn't even being recruited by OU, Bama, or Florida and I have no idea why." Well, these are a lot of the reasons why!
Next year my dd will be going to school and playing ball 1800 miles away. I said almost the exact words. I said if you go there and if it doesn't work out, you can come home. But don't have any regrets about what you could'a should'a done. DD has one former team mate that did not make it one semester at a decent D1 school and is back home at an NAIA school. A present team mate that de-committed from a top 20 D1school to stay closer to home. Don't be that 30 yr old that says "well, i could have gone big time BUT".
A very good point, but the corollary is that you don't want to be that 30 yr old that says "well, I could have gotten a good education while in college that led to a rewarding career instead of playing big time softball BUT".
Obviously, the best solution is to find the level/school that allows you to do both!
A very good point, but the corollary is that you don't want to be that 30 yr old that says "well, I could have gotten a good education while in college that led to a rewarding career instead of playing big time softball BUT".
Obviously, the best solution is to find the level/school that allows you to do both!
As Cannonball points out cost can be a factor. If parents (and or scholarships) can cover costs this may not be an issue. Not softball related but I do know folks who went to "top notch schools" and now regret the debt they piled up coming out of college and in retrospect wish they had "gone to local state school".By the time our kids are 18 and going off to college, they should be doing what is best for their career and figuring out what they are going to do for the rest of their lives. Having daughters go to a school close to their parents just so the parents can see their softball games should be one of the last factors in their decision making process on what college they should attend. I know its hard to let go as a parent, but I personally would be extremely disappointed in my kids if they got accepted to some top colleges but chose to stay local for me.