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In other words, Mary & Joseph would've found no room at your inn unless they agreed to do chores in the morning before joining everyone else for breakfast.This isn't the analogy that fits my approach. Of course I'm going to respect and take care of pickup players. But I don't view them the same as I would guests in my home. If you're a guest in my home, I'm concerned with your comfort first, and my family and I are expected to take care of ourselves. With my softball team, pickup players are not more or less important than my own players. They don't get to play whatever position they want. My players don't want those kinds of guests, and I don't blame them.
That said, you and I probably treat pickup players the same. I just wouldn't use 'house guest' as the comparison.
And, I also don't get the 'double-edged' sword analogy used by other posters about pickup players, either. Yes, you have to balance the needs of pickup player and regular player, but it ain't that hard, IMO. You talk to the pickup player/family and say this is the role that I have available for the tournament. Are you interested? It's as simple as that. It becomes a sword only when the coach fails to communicate the expectations to both sides ahead of time, IMO.
Surely a fair offer, but they probably would have continued on to Starsnuffer's and stayed the night there instead.