Based on what you've said, it sounds like you are approaching things the right way (IMO). I wish you and your DSD the best of luck moving forward. I hope you can ALL find a way to make things work so she can get back to enjoying the game.
On a side note, I wish my wife had more of your attitude towards my DD's bio-mom. It would make a LOT of things easier. That's a story for another place and time...
On a side note, I wish my wife had more of your attitude towards my DD's bio-mom. It would make a LOT of things easier. That's a story for another place and time...