- Dec 7, 2011
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Here in DFP we, as any group of like-interest folks, have our own culture. I want to take a second and challenge this group on something. I am NOT trying to call to attention “others” faults cuz gee-wizz I have mine. But maybe this thread can induce some critical thinking about what you might respond with the next time you get ready to hit “Submit”. (I will try and respect this too)
I like to sit back at times (especially when work is slow - as I disappear when I am in my busy months) and reflect on the mode of responses made here. (Sorry - I am an engineer at heart and schooling)....
One thing that I see that does not sit too well with me is the "slant" I see in here to overly criticize the choice to be and support the dedicated TB-A life.
Do I see the “dedicated” folks in DFP make subtle comments against the non-dedicated sb life? I don’t think so.
DFP-ers that will make comments like “if you’re a dedicated sb family you have lost your soul” or “if you’re a dedicated sb family you have no balance in your life”.
What is at the base of these types of denigrating comments?, ….albeit most are casual blows almost made from a perspective that this is some sort of common knowledge from their perspective.
I also wonder if some of you that will talk down dedication towards sb are yourselves just as deeply dedicated (yourself & family) to some other “thing”…? I hope not because that would mean you’re being a hypocrite.
Then to those who think that dedication to one thing is somehow “bad” – How is doing allot of different things and being great at nothing better? I would WHOLEHEARTEDLY submit the opposite. In fact avoiding dedication I BELIEVE is a very bad thing in life.
I like to sit back at times (especially when work is slow - as I disappear when I am in my busy months) and reflect on the mode of responses made here. (Sorry - I am an engineer at heart and schooling)....
One thing that I see that does not sit too well with me is the "slant" I see in here to overly criticize the choice to be and support the dedicated TB-A life.
Do I see the “dedicated” folks in DFP make subtle comments against the non-dedicated sb life? I don’t think so.
DFP-ers that will make comments like “if you’re a dedicated sb family you have lost your soul” or “if you’re a dedicated sb family you have no balance in your life”.
What is at the base of these types of denigrating comments?, ….albeit most are casual blows almost made from a perspective that this is some sort of common knowledge from their perspective.
I also wonder if some of you that will talk down dedication towards sb are yourselves just as deeply dedicated (yourself & family) to some other “thing”…? I hope not because that would mean you’re being a hypocrite.
Then to those who think that dedication to one thing is somehow “bad” – How is doing allot of different things and being great at nothing better? I would WHOLEHEARTEDLY submit the opposite. In fact avoiding dedication I BELIEVE is a very bad thing in life.