- May 25, 2010
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It's the classic dilemma: what to do with knowledge that's none of your business, but which could potentially help - or hurt - a buddy.
DD comes to me and says, "I've figured out that _____ doesn't like softball."
"Oh? How'd you figure that out?"
"She told me."
The dad is a friend of mine and has one daughter that loves softball and she's really good at it. DD #2 is average, but because she's so mild-mannered and free-spirited by nature, her degree of effort on the field just seems like an extension of her personality. According to my DD, her friend doesn't want to tell her dad, because she thinks it will upset him.
DD has told my wife and me, but I advised her not to tell anyone else.
The dad isn't delusional about her abilities, but seems to have a pretty bad read on her interest level in the sport when talking about things like having her go to TB tryouts.
My general policy is to forget information I shouldn't even have, but how many of you would prefer at least a subtle hint or two about the truth from a buddy?
DD comes to me and says, "I've figured out that _____ doesn't like softball."
"Oh? How'd you figure that out?"
"She told me."
The dad is a friend of mine and has one daughter that loves softball and she's really good at it. DD #2 is average, but because she's so mild-mannered and free-spirited by nature, her degree of effort on the field just seems like an extension of her personality. According to my DD, her friend doesn't want to tell her dad, because she thinks it will upset him.
DD has told my wife and me, but I advised her not to tell anyone else.
The dad isn't delusional about her abilities, but seems to have a pretty bad read on her interest level in the sport when talking about things like having her go to TB tryouts.
My general policy is to forget information I shouldn't even have, but how many of you would prefer at least a subtle hint or two about the truth from a buddy?