Keeping the catcher off the plate was MTCoach's main point on this thread. I am glad we are all in agreement here......you should never place yourself in the base runners path while waiting for the ball. Allowing a catcher to do this is just bad coaching, end off story.
We rarely see low pitches getting lost. Properly executed blocking techniques keep the ball in front of the catcher for the majority of pitches.Three years of playing catcher and your DD has never lost a low ball at her feet that she couldn't locate? That's pretty amazing since you can usually see it happen a couple of times a weekend.
I see this as comparing apples to oranges... Comparing second base to home plate in softball is like comparing a double to a home run on a date. The only commonality is the goal of scoring (Cue "Meatloaf" about now)So let's answer the question, what would you say to a girl playing second base who jumped head first in front of a slide to make a tag?
First you have the defensive player playing second base... They are on the same side of the base as the runner and approach the base from the first base side, (same as runner) When the ball is hit and they are not fielding the ball directly, they either cover first (bunt) cover second, or cover the cut. Depending on the circumstances they will back up throws as well. Since they are closer to the bag than the runner... they are on the bag waiting for the ball or the runner. Plus the majority of the time the second base player is completing a force out at that base. There is rarely a time that the second base player needs to make the tag. There should be no reason to jump head first in front of a slide. This is the physical portion, now you have the mental thinking of covering second compared to home. You give up a single, no harm done... they have a looonnnngggg way to go to make it home. They can't score on another single without a defensive brainfart. The runner reaches second, well no one hurt, but we gotta be more careful now. The runner could get home on a single. When third base is given up... the pressure is really on. We got to keep the ball on the ground and make the play to not give up the run. Still, no run has yet to score..... The runner advancing to home now has only one person left to stop her. The pressure is all on the catcher now to prevent that runner from scoring. The majority of the time this is a tag play, not a force. The catcher's desperation to make the tag and get the out can easily be compounded by an off-target throw, causing her to move from her coverage point. The very act of tagging means that your arms must stretch out... your shoulders and head (being connected to the arms) are forced to follow. My thinking here is that the catcher will make every effort to make that tag. Unless your fielder makes the perfect throw every time... and your catcher is disciplined enough to set up and tag flawlessly every time and no other outside factors come into play. The risk of injury isn't worth the risk. Masks should be left on.