I certainly wasn't thinking about college when I was 13 years old. Hell I wasn't thinking about it 50% of the time I was in college.
I hear you though. There is a very good chance softball is not a part of her decision making when choosing a University.
Times have changed. Getting into college is much harder and kids start very early. I can't say it's a bad thing, but it doesn't necessarily seem like a good thing.
Having things other than school is great, of course. Dedication to softball, even if the girl isn't great at it, certainly paints a picture of a more-rounded, healthy young adult.