Even if the DD is only in the 8th grade and has only 3 practices with this new coach? I don't see her as being equipped to handle it correctly given the combination of her maturity level and the newness of the player/coach relationship. I might feel different if she had played for this coach for a while and felt comfortable in approaching a touchy subject like this where basically, you are telling the coach that she screwed up! LOL. Telling an adult authority figure that they screwed up is not an easy task for a lot of young girls. As we all know, these girls mature at different rates. What one 8th grader can handle socially, another may be like a duck out of water trying to handle, so a one size fits all approach is not applicable IMO.
Yes telling a coach they screwed up either as an adult or a child is not recommended. . However, as a parent it is our responsibility to coach our kids through life and help them in these situations. Coach them on what to say and how to say it so when they are faced with this same situation in the future they are more apt to handle on their own.
As I’ve already stated ask the coach what should she do if she feels pain , soreness or gets tired . See what the response is. If the coach is any good she will give her the correct answer. If not, then the parent should intervene or not play for that coach.
Every time my DD complained to me last year 12u about the coach or anything to do with the coach I guided her through that process. The idea being to help her grow as a young adult in an uncomfortable position. Not to mention gain some respect from that coach. Again JMHO.
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