I know..but it is more than just pitchers ( I realize you were speaking to this specific case..I was just generalizing)..it is everybody on the field. Individual success can be praised/embraced while keeping in mind that the team success is the ultimate goal.That's what i was trying to say -- that she should find individual successes even if the team isn't winning. That's hard to keep track of when the team is struggling.
I have nothing to add to the discussion but to agree with what you said above.For the OP - how was the level of competition in school ball vs TB? Those are great #'s, but was it coming off pitchers who are still struggling finding the strike zone? My oldest is playing JV - the demographics for most schools in our division doesn't really lend itself to strong softball programs. It's great to see a lot of girls trying the sport for the first time, but the level of play can be hard to watch.