Parents and DD like us who continuously work the background to get a competitive advantage (favoritism) is everywhere, and somewhat of an art form.
Not sure what kinds of things you're talking about. Can you give examples?
If that means networking and making friends so that people know about you and your daughter, then sure. If it means being a good softball parent - getting your kid to practices on time, helping her with her game outside of practice, coaching her to have a good attitude and hustle and be a good teammate, behaving yourself at tournaments, volunteering to put out the bases, etc., basically all the things that coaches want in a parent - then of course. Coaches want good parents, and I plan to deliver that.
But if it means pretending to be someone's friend, or sucking up to people, or wanting to be an assistant so that you can get your daughter a particular position, then I'm not a fan of that. That would be cheating other kids, IMO.