Maddie's comment to me after we watched her swing clips from last weekend's games..."You're the only person who talks about my back".
LOL! I get this too from hitters. I take it as a complement
If you can learn to feel the lower back pull back and scap load yourself, and then start to get your hitters to feel it, I feel you've done a very good thing that most female hitters lack/never gain.
You really have to work past a lot of skepticism sometimes when introducing new ideas to hitters and coaches. The best "response" is your hitter starting to blast line drives!