I know a little about math. I've got a degree in EE. My GPA in math in college was 4.0 (straight As). I graduated no. 1 in my class in engineering. I work at a senior level in one of the world's most well known technology companies.
For this, I'll assume that your DD is not a math prodigy. If she were, by the way, all she would want to do is math, because to a prodigy, math is play.
SO:
1) There is an old Chinese saying, which paraphrased, says, "Three shoemakers are better than one Henry Kissinger." Engineering and innovation in today's world is not about putting a bright person in a lab, shutting the door, and then waiting for that person to "invent". Rather, it is about groups of people working as a team. If your child doesn't know how to work with other people, then she will fail.
Softball is the best sport to learn teamwork. Softball is about "individual excellence within a team environment". If you want your child to be a leader in innovation, it is more important at her age to learn how to get along with 12 other girls of varying interests than to learn integral calculus.
2) Your information about college preparedness is wrong. In the US, as opposed to China, Japan, etc., anyone (and I mean anyone) can go to college. In the almost all of the rest of the world, the only people who can go to college are those who pass rigorous college entrance exams.
So, guess which group is going to be better prepared for college math? The masses of people who we allow to attempt college in the US? Or the select few that have already proven they are ready for college?
3) The trick in college is calculus. The calculus teachers in college are EXCELLENT. They are wonderful. So, a kid that is well prepared in algebra and geometry will catch up with your DD in a semester. (Again, assuming your DD is not a prodigy.)
4) If your child does work in a science area, you will find, surprisingly, that the most valuable people are *NOT* the best physicists or chemists, but rather are the people who know how to work on a team and lead a group. And, guess what? Those are the people who played a team sport.
I hate to brag (well, actually, I don't hate to brag), but DD#3 got a degree in chemistry. She also won a national championship in basketball. Guess what her career looks like? She is in demand by everyone in her business. Why? She knows *HOW TO WORK WITH PEOPLE*.
5) You and your wife are missing the best part of raising children. if you lead the child, all then your child's path is constrained by what your hopes, desires and fears. If you let the child lead, then you end up in wonderful places, seeing and doing things you can't imagine.
Ray
For this, I'll assume that your DD is not a math prodigy. If she were, by the way, all she would want to do is math, because to a prodigy, math is play.
SO:
1) There is an old Chinese saying, which paraphrased, says, "Three shoemakers are better than one Henry Kissinger." Engineering and innovation in today's world is not about putting a bright person in a lab, shutting the door, and then waiting for that person to "invent". Rather, it is about groups of people working as a team. If your child doesn't know how to work with other people, then she will fail.
Softball is the best sport to learn teamwork. Softball is about "individual excellence within a team environment". If you want your child to be a leader in innovation, it is more important at her age to learn how to get along with 12 other girls of varying interests than to learn integral calculus.
2) Your information about college preparedness is wrong. In the US, as opposed to China, Japan, etc., anyone (and I mean anyone) can go to college. In the almost all of the rest of the world, the only people who can go to college are those who pass rigorous college entrance exams.
So, guess which group is going to be better prepared for college math? The masses of people who we allow to attempt college in the US? Or the select few that have already proven they are ready for college?
3) The trick in college is calculus. The calculus teachers in college are EXCELLENT. They are wonderful. So, a kid that is well prepared in algebra and geometry will catch up with your DD in a semester. (Again, assuming your DD is not a prodigy.)
4) If your child does work in a science area, you will find, surprisingly, that the most valuable people are *NOT* the best physicists or chemists, but rather are the people who know how to work on a team and lead a group. And, guess what? Those are the people who played a team sport.
I hate to brag (well, actually, I don't hate to brag), but DD#3 got a degree in chemistry. She also won a national championship in basketball. Guess what her career looks like? She is in demand by everyone in her business. Why? She knows *HOW TO WORK WITH PEOPLE*.
5) You and your wife are missing the best part of raising children. if you lead the child, all then your child's path is constrained by what your hopes, desires and fears. If you let the child lead, then you end up in wonderful places, seeing and doing things you can't imagine.
Ray