My DD is the only kid on her team who wears a mask . She is a Freshman playing 3rd on her HS Varsity team as well as catching occasionally . The Coach challenged her in winter workouts about the mask , challenged her about not throwing her helmet when catching and challenged her about holding her hand behind the glove ala NECC catching videos . I told her to tell her coach that her parents make her wear the mask and when one of the AC's told me they were going to "Break her of her bad catching habits" I asked that they please not as we have spent the last 3 years getting her to where she is at catching .
They made me sign a waiver saying I understand that SB is a dangerous sport where she could be hurt or even killed and I would not hold them liable so it seems only fair that she is protected in a manner that I deem prudent , not what the coach feels like .
The reality of the situation is this , your DD is a gift from you to the coach . You have seen fit to support her in a manner to where she excels at softball . You have spent thousands of hours and more than likely thousands of dollars getting her to a level where she can compete . When someone loans me an expensive , irreplaceable , invaluable tool I try to return it in better condition than I borrowed it and if I am given a few rules on the handling of said tool I should do my best to follow them .
That's just my .02 .
They made me sign a waiver saying I understand that SB is a dangerous sport where she could be hurt or even killed and I would not hold them liable so it seems only fair that she is protected in a manner that I deem prudent , not what the coach feels like .
The reality of the situation is this , your DD is a gift from you to the coach . You have seen fit to support her in a manner to where she excels at softball . You have spent thousands of hours and more than likely thousands of dollars getting her to a level where she can compete . When someone loans me an expensive , irreplaceable , invaluable tool I try to return it in better condition than I borrowed it and if I am given a few rules on the handling of said tool I should do my best to follow them .
That's just my .02 .