We had a similar situation, maybe a little worse in that the AC was HC's daughter and a HE PC. While he didn't try to convert us, he did make sure that when my DD pitched, the defense behind her was the weakest lineup possible. It was one of the big reasons we left and she ended up leaving softball. Ironically, last year, HC sends out a feeler to see if DD wanted to come back. We knew his pitching was weak and getting pounded. DD said no thanks.