So DD plays travel and rec ball, catcher, 2nd, SS. Last night at a rec ball game the coach had all the girls playing different positions then normal and my daughter was playing 1st. Two other girls caught, both of whom play on a different travel team and have their own catching gear. Without even asking DD they removed her gear from her bag and used it when they where catching. Ive raised my DD to value and take care of what she has, and she does very well for her age. She would never dream of using other peoples equipment, especially without asking first. She didnt say anything due to being the kid who does not like conflict. During the game I could tell something was "off" but didnt notice her gear being used by others. After the game she was livid and fuming.
When she asked why her stuff was out, and being used " your stuff fits better"
How would you go about putting this to a end?
Also have to add, her and myself would gladly let someone who thinks they want to be catcher use her stuff for a game or two just to see if catching is a good fit for that kid before spending the 400 plus dollars on gear...... IF we where approached and asked before hand.
When she asked why her stuff was out, and being used " your stuff fits better"
How would you go about putting this to a end?
Also have to add, her and myself would gladly let someone who thinks they want to be catcher use her stuff for a game or two just to see if catching is a good fit for that kid before spending the 400 plus dollars on gear...... IF we where approached and asked before hand.