I'm having tryouts in August. ...
I've got a girl who's been w/ me since forming the team three seasons ago who isn't athletic enough, IMO, to be more than just a very low-end hitter, decent outfielder on even a B-level team, which is what we are. She's our weakest player now, and there's no doubt I'm going to find 12+ players who are better for next year.
Complicating matters: She's one of four players still left on the team who grew up playing at the park where we practice. She's an original, and we're friends w/ the family, etc. Though I've always said tryouts are truly competitive, with no spots guaranteed, they don't really hear that. In the past, the only girls who didn't get re-upped were those w/ bad attitudes or bad parents. I've never failed to return a player for lack of talent - until now. This is a good kid, tries hard, but lacks the athleticism to deliver at the level I want to reach.
For the coming season, I can't keep her. I'm going to have better girls at tryouts, and she won't make the top 12 - unless I guarantee a spot to all returning players who work hard and have a good attitude, of which she is one. She's holding our better kids back.
This week, I announced tryouts (the date) and what that means. We're losing 5 players who must age up. The dad says things to me like, ''Got any prospects on filling those 5 spots?" The assumption being that 6 are assured spots.
How do I break it to them? Key point is that this family has been loyal from the start. Dad calls us a ''family'' team, and we are kinda like that. The dad is realistic about his daughter, knows she's the weakest. But he believes positions on the team are tenured.
How would you answer these questions from them --
Why can't we take the six returning girls and find the best five to replace those who are aging up? ...
We're not an A team. Why not be loyal to those who've been on the team from the start, as long as they have a good attitude and try hard? ...
It's just one player. She's happy to bat 11th and play LF. What's the harm in that?
Shouldn't it be more about the girls and not about winning?
I've got a girl who's been w/ me since forming the team three seasons ago who isn't athletic enough, IMO, to be more than just a very low-end hitter, decent outfielder on even a B-level team, which is what we are. She's our weakest player now, and there's no doubt I'm going to find 12+ players who are better for next year.
Complicating matters: She's one of four players still left on the team who grew up playing at the park where we practice. She's an original, and we're friends w/ the family, etc. Though I've always said tryouts are truly competitive, with no spots guaranteed, they don't really hear that. In the past, the only girls who didn't get re-upped were those w/ bad attitudes or bad parents. I've never failed to return a player for lack of talent - until now. This is a good kid, tries hard, but lacks the athleticism to deliver at the level I want to reach.
For the coming season, I can't keep her. I'm going to have better girls at tryouts, and she won't make the top 12 - unless I guarantee a spot to all returning players who work hard and have a good attitude, of which she is one. She's holding our better kids back.
This week, I announced tryouts (the date) and what that means. We're losing 5 players who must age up. The dad says things to me like, ''Got any prospects on filling those 5 spots?" The assumption being that 6 are assured spots.
How do I break it to them? Key point is that this family has been loyal from the start. Dad calls us a ''family'' team, and we are kinda like that. The dad is realistic about his daughter, knows she's the weakest. But he believes positions on the team are tenured.
How would you answer these questions from them --
Why can't we take the six returning girls and find the best five to replace those who are aging up? ...
We're not an A team. Why not be loyal to those who've been on the team from the start, as long as they have a good attitude and try hard? ...
It's just one player. She's happy to bat 11th and play LF. What's the harm in that?
Shouldn't it be more about the girls and not about winning?