So here is the situation. . My daughter 10u says she loves to "play" softball, but I think she likes having the cool bag, uniform, etc, but she seems to not to put forth the effort.. we want to make sure she really likes to play, and we compliment her when doing good, but we shouldn't have to make her try hard every time.. she can be really good when she tries.. but effort is not there until we bring it out in her. So when we ask her maybe it's time to quit she cries and gets upset. We just want her to find something she likes to do.. she says softball is it, but without effort on her own, it just seems like maybe it's not for her. I know she is still very young. .. just wanted to hear some thoughts on the subject..
Thanks guys
Thanks guys