Greenmonsters
Wannabe Duck Boat Owner
The kids at 10U here are swinging Xeno's, Demarini's, Easton's Stealth, Synergy Speed's, etc.. We are talking 31/21 bats at this age. And they can seemingly keep the bat head up and get around on it when kids on my team swinging a 19 or 20 oz bat cannot. I know something is up but how can anyone prove it. I suppose the umpire can carry a scale and weigh them. After all shaving removes material meaning it should not weigh less than listed or it would be a altered bat? I do not see anyone really shaving a 17 oz bat. As a matter of fact if they would just let their DD swing the right length and weighted bat they probably would swing faster and hit just as hard. But then again It would not be as cool.
Look if the Dad knows it is a rules violation I would explain how it would place you and the team at risk as well as his daughter. If he does not seem to get it then and change his arrogance then I say release him. Let him be upset and you go on being able to look at yourself in the mirror every day. Period. Really stinks to hear you are in this situation. It is not cool at all. Good luck whatever you do.
Unless they're all DD's of slowpitch-playing, cheater-stick swinging Mongos, you're probably barking up the wrong tree. A mechanically sound swing (i.e., lower half driven or stretch-n-fire) can easily handle a -10 drop at 10U and provide surprising power. The lighter -11 and -12 drops can provide decent results, but typically mask the swing flaws that a -10 exposes (Tewks had a good post/blog article about light bats). The sooner those swing flaws are identified and fixed, the sooner the kid becomes a good hitter, regardless of whether its a $30 or $300 or -8 or -13 bat. IMO, its the Indian, not the arrow.