Bishop,
Don't go by the name. It came from something else. But the daughter did play for a very high level program.
As for the one program... That would be a no also. But I do appreciate that someone does understand what it takes to do something well at a high level.
SG
Already unhappy rumblings about some of this with other parents ... up to them to discuss their situation on their own ...
I apologize because at first I thought it was a discussion with the volleyball or basketball coach (so she could not play there), not softball, but still, it makes me uncomfortable to have this type of discussion going on when the player is not around. This happens a lot even with the player present as if she wasn't there! The girls are old enough by 13 or 14 to spoken to directly and not "around," with possible results of what is said being detrimental to them.
No, not a first year coach ... many years,
Told before signing no big trips ... looking at two, one five hours away and one two hours away .. the other 5 (now 6) in our state.
Nine total...one huge trip, two we can do out of state, six in state.
No other team for my older DD to go to.
Director/coach seem to have "forgotten" agreement about younger DD .... or they want the $$ to subsidize other players ... who knows.
We made our situation clear and planned it (what we were told) all out ... now things (team path) have changed (that does happen in life) .. but we can only do what we can do.
It is frustrating ...
pointing fingers at parents who say they have no money and want fundraising money to pay for this while they walk around with Iphones and designer clothes can get sticky ...
we are at a loss at how to even bring any of that up ...
life is not always fair ...
I don't agree with playing a kid who texts on bench, doesn't come to practice, shows up late for games ...but that isn't something that isn't seen in Travel anyway ... and time is coach decision.
I will say that even though we are at odds with the coach (barely speak to him any more), he is still treating both our kids fairly on the field at the moment.
We aren't that happy ... but we did make a comittment.
One way we are trying to look at it ... can't let the kids think you can quit anytime you are unhappy or it isn't easy or isn't perfect.
My youngest has taken on the challenge and is looking really good ... my older DD has lots to work on hitting .. she will play a lot as other skills very good ...but will play more if hitting improves ...she has really grabbed onto that.
Kind of walking on a balance beam ... hopefully we can keep our balance ..if not ... figure it out then.
Kind of venting here ... looking for opinions ...
seeing red flags ...but hoping it can work out too ..... trying to take the high road ...