P.S. Sorry for the thread hijack, lhowser! Maybe this banter has given you some insight...
I really have found the convesation helpful and interesting. She is in 8th this year. High School is one of the goals she has. It's a pretty big deal around here because our school here in Ohio has played in our D-1 State final for the past 3 years. She really hopes that this summer can be one of great progress before high school and before 16U ball. She did some mirror work yesterday working on some of the things we talked about. No ball in hand yet. Probably will work the mirror agressively again and then start throwing.