First, the big plus. DD is getting to pitch varsity, very unexpected but welcome event. As one may expect (as freshman) she has had some good outings, one or two very good, some not so good including today. No real rhyme or reason to it, probably just growing pains. I did not make game, so I asked how it went. The rant: Ump wasn't giving me calls - threw CU down middle of plate, wouldn't give me strikes, did not like pitches coach was calling, teammates made errors yada yada. clearly game did not go well, and was not the kind of performance she was used to.- I was supportive parent knew she needed to vent, and recognize that she is under pressure of her own doing and inadvertently from the coach (compares her to graduated senior who was excellent ).
In my mind, I was thinking about the responsibility for her own performance? and I would have liked to see her think about what she could work on to improve, and not be satisfied with so-so. Am I expecting too much- (of course I am, duh, she is 15) How can I approach this with her and help her to take a bad outing apart a bit and look what she could do better- without (key word) being perceived as overly critical- is that even possible?? should I leave well enough alone and just be a parent. probably.. that seems right- but I would like to help her if I can. WHat to do?
PS Dogs woke me up - big thunder storm, and now I can't sleep
In my mind, I was thinking about the responsibility for her own performance? and I would have liked to see her think about what she could work on to improve, and not be satisfied with so-so. Am I expecting too much- (of course I am, duh, she is 15) How can I approach this with her and help her to take a bad outing apart a bit and look what she could do better- without (key word) being perceived as overly critical- is that even possible?? should I leave well enough alone and just be a parent. probably.. that seems right- but I would like to help her if I can. WHat to do?
PS Dogs woke me up - big thunder storm, and now I can't sleep
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