I will try to keep this short but detailed.
12U, Championship game
Our pitcher who's mom is heavily involved was pulled during the championship game after the other team began hitting her fairly hard. She was moved to her secondary position and made little to no effort to hide her displeasure or any attempt to field a throw that caused three runs to score. During this play she made little to no effort to chase the ball that got past her. The manager pulled her after the play which i agree with. The issue i have is how do i as a father and very very very new assistant coach/helper address this issue with the Manager who is life long friends with the mom? I'm a very blunt person who hates politics but i feel i can't stand by while one player packs it in because she doesn't want to play anywhere but in the circle and other girls who play their heart out but aren't as gifted sit and watch this. My DD gets playing time and is not a pitcher so their isn't a bias for me to get her circle time nor does she compete with this player for any playing time anywhere else. I hope i put enough info in here and was clear enough, if not please ask questions and i'll elaborate as best i can.
This also isn't a game issue only, practices are pretty half efforted also but because of mom and relationships i tend to be the only one who truly speaks up.
12U, Championship game
Our pitcher who's mom is heavily involved was pulled during the championship game after the other team began hitting her fairly hard. She was moved to her secondary position and made little to no effort to hide her displeasure or any attempt to field a throw that caused three runs to score. During this play she made little to no effort to chase the ball that got past her. The manager pulled her after the play which i agree with. The issue i have is how do i as a father and very very very new assistant coach/helper address this issue with the Manager who is life long friends with the mom? I'm a very blunt person who hates politics but i feel i can't stand by while one player packs it in because she doesn't want to play anywhere but in the circle and other girls who play their heart out but aren't as gifted sit and watch this. My DD gets playing time and is not a pitcher so their isn't a bias for me to get her circle time nor does she compete with this player for any playing time anywhere else. I hope i put enough info in here and was clear enough, if not please ask questions and i'll elaborate as best i can.
This also isn't a game issue only, practices are pretty half efforted also but because of mom and relationships i tend to be the only one who truly speaks up.