JJsqueeze
Dad, Husband....legend
Ok..having trouble following that...I agree with the 'reaction' thing. That is exactly what is happening. You're saying I should just have her swing at everything? At least as a mindset. Then react to not swinging at balls?
If need be, then yes, have her take a few at bats and swing at everything in a friendly. But you should be able to do this in front toss, like RD said, just give her strike after strike and then mix in a bad ball, if she didn't get to a check swing position then remind her that she is swinging at everything until she isn't....beware the fake check swing, they will sometimes forget to check and then try to fake you out with a late check swing that clearly was not timed right to actually be a true "swinging till you are not" check swing. Also be patient, it is surprising difficult to follow this instruction at the beginning because kids are basically mush brains, but she'll get it.