Regarding this graph ...
Notice the 'red' "batted ball speed" curve. The 'red' curve doesn't drop off much after it peaks ... sort of flat. I interpret this to imply that those with a healthy swing are not as greatly impacted by a small increase in barrel weight.
Compare that graph to the following graph ....
Notice how the 'red' curve drops off more sharply with increases in barrel weight. I interpret this to imply that those with an inferior swing ... arm swingers ... are more at the mercy of barrel weight.
These graphs point out the basic laws of physics. Velocity of the bat has more of an affect on the impact than the weight. Kinetic energy formula is .5*mass*velocity squared.
In the graph above, swing speed is shown to decrease linearly with increased bat weight .... yet for a large portion of the graph there is an increase in batted ball speed.
I think an important element not spoken to here in this thread is the ability for the batter to control her bat. My DD has a heavy and a lighter bat. She works out all off-season long with the heavier metal bat and into the cute little HS season where its too cold yet for composite.
BUT when she faces the better pitching in TB where two successive pitches break 12 inches apart from each other I think she has got to have the lighter, and more controllable bat in her hands.
I have seen DD, against the same great pitcher, look "owned" with her heavier bat, and then put the lighter one in her hands and it's a whole different story. Just from a couple ounces and a little difference in balance.