- Feb 3, 2011
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I'm just venting a little.
This is DD's first time being on a team where she's not the best player, but there's a pretty good chance that she could crack the starting lineup, though, and play in the outfield.
Mom is not pleased, but I'm doing my best to explain how things work. The 2 best players pitch and play SS when not pitching. No one is going to beat them out for either of those spots. The tallest player had a pretty good bat all season and she plays 1B. She's not the most skilled at the position, but that's really the only place she can play on the field and they want her bat in the lineup. She's the biggest target, so for the time being, the position is hers.
I could continue, but you get the gist. DD has range, amazing gloves skills, and a good arm. She is also a good hitter, but there really are no infield openings at this time. She does want to start, though.
I love her to death, but Mom isn't really helping me out here with comments like "she didn't even get to try out for the infield" or "she's always played infield", "why is so-n-so getting to play 2B?", etc. Sure, it can be a little disappointing for the player not to be the star anymore, but she's got to learn what it is to have to fight for what she wants.
I wish Mom could understand how good this is for DD. She's 8 and she was voted to the 10u All-Star team, where some players have already turned 11. Everyone is 1-2 years bigger, stronger, more experienced than she is. The older girls have taken her under their wing and she's worked to earn their respect. And the fact that she's got a shot at starting is huge. I just need Mom to get over the rec parent mentality that only the weak players are assigned to the outfield, because things are way different once you get to All-Stars.
This is DD's first time being on a team where she's not the best player, but there's a pretty good chance that she could crack the starting lineup, though, and play in the outfield.
Mom is not pleased, but I'm doing my best to explain how things work. The 2 best players pitch and play SS when not pitching. No one is going to beat them out for either of those spots. The tallest player had a pretty good bat all season and she plays 1B. She's not the most skilled at the position, but that's really the only place she can play on the field and they want her bat in the lineup. She's the biggest target, so for the time being, the position is hers.
I could continue, but you get the gist. DD has range, amazing gloves skills, and a good arm. She is also a good hitter, but there really are no infield openings at this time. She does want to start, though.
I love her to death, but Mom isn't really helping me out here with comments like "she didn't even get to try out for the infield" or "she's always played infield", "why is so-n-so getting to play 2B?", etc. Sure, it can be a little disappointing for the player not to be the star anymore, but she's got to learn what it is to have to fight for what she wants.
I wish Mom could understand how good this is for DD. She's 8 and she was voted to the 10u All-Star team, where some players have already turned 11. Everyone is 1-2 years bigger, stronger, more experienced than she is. The older girls have taken her under their wing and she's worked to earn their respect. And the fact that she's got a shot at starting is huge. I just need Mom to get over the rec parent mentality that only the weak players are assigned to the outfield, because things are way different once you get to All-Stars.