- Jan 9, 2015
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I remember when I was a freshman on the football team. I had a lot of respect for all my coaches. I had a coach explaining a play to me. I was saying "okay coach, okay coach" to let him know that I was listening as he was talking. For some reason, one time it came out "OKAY COACH!". The look on his face was shock that I talked back to him. I'm betting that I looked about the same. He stopped for a moment to think. Then realized everyone was watching me. Then he grabbed my face mask and screamed at me for about 5 minutes. I also had to run.
After practice I went up to him and apologized. I told him that I wasn't trying to be disrespectful that my voice came out wrong. He told me he understood. I suspect he knew the whole time, but couldn't let others see me yell at him.
There are 2 points to this story. 1) Sometime young men and women are disrespectful even when they aren't trying to be. Sometimes the chemistry in the body is just off for whatever reason that day(puberty). 2) By apologizing I was able to smooth over a situation. Your DD will have times that she has to apologize (right or wrong) to her peers, her clients and her boss in life. Might as well start practicing now.
After practice I went up to him and apologized. I told him that I wasn't trying to be disrespectful that my voice came out wrong. He told me he understood. I suspect he knew the whole time, but couldn't let others see me yell at him.
There are 2 points to this story. 1) Sometime young men and women are disrespectful even when they aren't trying to be. Sometimes the chemistry in the body is just off for whatever reason that day(puberty). 2) By apologizing I was able to smooth over a situation. Your DD will have times that she has to apologize (right or wrong) to her peers, her clients and her boss in life. Might as well start practicing now.