I'm learning these last few weeks to keep my mouth shut! If I say anything to my DD she shuts down and does more of what I tell her she's doing wrong. If a coach tells her she makes the adjustment. I'm learning a lot from our coach this year. His demeanor with the girls is astounding. He knows the right things to say and the right time to say them. We don't have girls shutting down, the girls put enough pressure on themselves without anyone adding to it.