It sounds to me like the folks running your league are relatively inexperienced with higher level softball, and there was not much planning other than "let's have a 10U travel team!". So from that point of view, yes, the league is a train wreck. Is it something that can be fixed? Absolutely. However, poor planning and execution are certainly reasons to leave a program and look for something better. If this were an actual 10U travel team and not a rec league, would you pick up and leave? I would hope that you would. I don't think it is enough to say this is a rec league and you should cut them a break because they don't know what they are doing. They did not deliver on what they said they would, and I would look for better options in the future for my kids.