An interesting dilemma developed with my DD's TB team that I thought I would share with the group to solicit opinions on the subject.
My DD had played on the same TB team for 7 years (started as an independent team and joined a 2nd tier organization at second year 14U). DD was part of the "core" the team was built around. A lot of players changed over the years, but every year we got a little better and increased our level of play. The head coach had a "no pickup" policy, which was fine at 10U, 12U and 14U because it was all about the team. Our dilemma started at 16U. My DD has a goal of playing D1 college softball, and there were probably 2-3 other girls on the team with lower D1 talent, but the rest of the team was D2, D3, NAIA, or JUCO. We were not part of a marquee organization so our team did not get invited to the major showcases - Independence, Demarini, PGF. My DD was invited to guest play in CO at the Independence and we decided to go, which turned out to be a blessing because it is the reason my DD is verballed today. So my question to the group, is it OK to switch from a "team first" to a "recruiting first" mentality at 16U? Our head coach did not want to change his mentality, so we changed teams at the end of the season. Unfortunately, when my DD left, a lot of other "core players" decided to leave too. The team ended up folding, and I felt badly about it, but we needed to do what was best for my DD.
My DD had played on the same TB team for 7 years (started as an independent team and joined a 2nd tier organization at second year 14U). DD was part of the "core" the team was built around. A lot of players changed over the years, but every year we got a little better and increased our level of play. The head coach had a "no pickup" policy, which was fine at 10U, 12U and 14U because it was all about the team. Our dilemma started at 16U. My DD has a goal of playing D1 college softball, and there were probably 2-3 other girls on the team with lower D1 talent, but the rest of the team was D2, D3, NAIA, or JUCO. We were not part of a marquee organization so our team did not get invited to the major showcases - Independence, Demarini, PGF. My DD was invited to guest play in CO at the Independence and we decided to go, which turned out to be a blessing because it is the reason my DD is verballed today. So my question to the group, is it OK to switch from a "team first" to a "recruiting first" mentality at 16U? Our head coach did not want to change his mentality, so we changed teams at the end of the season. Unfortunately, when my DD left, a lot of other "core players" decided to leave too. The team ended up folding, and I felt badly about it, but we needed to do what was best for my DD.