That is Mike White, University of Oregon, in the 3rd base coaches box. And no, he's not looking "at" her, just in her direction, LOL.
Ringor cleats, pitching toe. Definitely NOT the lightest cleats, but by far the toughest out there, and well worth it for her. Almost all players on the team wear them. Helps that Ringor corporate headquarters is less than 30 minutes away!
Good point on the headband......but one of the parents bought all the players the same headband :-}