I think it is a shame as well. DD's team played their final tourney as a team on 7/9. They had a bid to Nationals that the HC declined. Held tryouts for that team on 7/13. DD tried out for a different team on 7/11 and committed to them on 7/12. That team still had nationals to go to.
Tryout time is stressful enough without the added stress of trying to keep secrets from the current team. Now everyone says - "oh everyone knows who is planning on leaving anyway". Not true. DD was pretty sure she was going to return to her old team. HC loved her, she was pretty much guaranteed lead off batter and she never sat. DD decided on 7/11 that she needed a change. Shocked everyone. Me included.
Tryout time is stressful enough without the added stress of trying to keep secrets from the current team. Now everyone says - "oh everyone knows who is planning on leaving anyway". Not true. DD was pretty sure she was going to return to her old team. HC loved her, she was pretty much guaranteed lead off batter and she never sat. DD decided on 7/11 that she needed a change. Shocked everyone. Me included.