It's okay for them to steal records i guess cause your kid wasn't impacted?
Not at all. I'm absolutely empathetic to the runners affected, and I've outlined my position on this on other threads on this board before - I pointed to Amby Burfoot's take which I agree with, summarized here:
"1–Do you believe in separate men’s and women’s competition in sports? Yes. It’s what gives women an opportunity to succeed in sports, and they deserve that opportunity. Also, history and tradition should count for something.
2–Would you decide by asking the athlete for his/her gender, or by finding a more objective test? I’d look for a more objective test. As Joanna Harper likes to say, “If you get to choose, then I choose to be 80 years old. I’d kick butt in that division.” (She’s 62 and finished ninth in her division at the National Cross Country Championships in Tallahassee on February 2). The World Champs and Olympics aren’t the place to use personal preference to determine one’s entry status.
3–Would you use a testosterone test, or have you got a better idea? I don’t have a better idea, and I find the testosterone argument quite convincing. It’s not perfect, but it’s the best we’ve got."
So to answer your question, no - I'm not saying it's okay, only that it's exceedingly rare.